What would you say to your 12 -year -old self now?

I'd tell my 12-year-old self not to fret over every little detail. I remember those days, fretting about my unique appearance, my distinct hair, and standing out among various cultures. Looking back, I realize embracing your authentic self is the key. As you journey through womanhood, you'll find the beauty in being true to who you are. Embrace it, and the world will too.

Who inspired you as a little girl?

My inspiration as a little girl was undoubtedly my mom. She was a strong woman, a true feminist who believed in empowering women. My mom founded Save Sandy Beach and instilled in me the value of Aina, our land. As a teenager, I didn't fully grasp her actions, but as an adult, I witnessed the untouched beauty of our land on the Kaibi Coast—no hotels, no golf courses, just the pure essence of nature. She taught me that fighting for what you believe in can be done in a productive and graceful manner. Today, I strive to protect our culture and heritage with the same grace and determination she showed me.

What brings you joy?

The source of my joy undoubtedly lies in my family, especially my role as a mother. I’ve always been my mom’s pride and joy, and now, being a mother myself, my own girls bring me unparalleled happiness. 

Witnessing their growth from childhood to adulthood, I've come to realize the complexities of parenthood—the highs and lows, the mistakes, and the beautiful imperfections that make us human. As they've matured, I find myself learning from them. They've introduced me to new perspectives, cultural insights, fitness routines, meditation practices, and overall, a deeper understanding of life. In them, I find boundless joy and inspiration.

Speaking to women younger than us, what kind of things would you say?

I'd say, embrace the glorious freedom of not giving a shit. Our generation lived in a world without the constant buzz of technology. We straddle two worlds, and you, the generation just below us, have the power to fully embrace the freedom that comes with age. My advice? Go for it, fearlessly. As you enter your 40s, 50s, and beyond, it's time to relish in life without worrying about societal expectations or online validation. Your kids might even teach you the invaluable lesson of limiting your time on social media. Remember, the real joy lies in living life, enjoying the present moment, and not giving a shit about what others think. So, my dear, get off that technology every now and then and revel in the beauty of not giving a shit.